Dear brothers and sisters, MARRIAGE IS A LIFE, what do we mean by that? For example, those who love each other normally must speak on the phone, text each other; go out together couple of hours a week etc... But marriage is a LIFE, he is there for you day and night, and you too is there to bear with him the pressure of this life in the time of his anger, to be kind with her when she’s uncomfortable during her menstruation or pregnancy, in short, to stand together hand in hand in good times and also in hard times.
So expect that marriage must be 24 hours a day happiness and enjoyments, as we said, marriage is a life and so we must live our lives in a natural manner, we can’t be all the way in a peaceful mood, sometimes he is nervous, sometimes she’s busy cleaning and washing and smell onion and garlic, so you must bear these ugly moments together as you have enjoyed happy moments earlier.
So how can we bear those difficult situations that we face after marriage??? Both parties should be living together for the sake of Allah.
So don’t be fooled by sweet words that has nothing to do with ‘real love’. Those words (i.e. I love you, I can’t wait till I see you tomorrow, I miss you etc…) can never establish this life (i.e. Marriage), this so called LOVE will fail when face the reality of life, when facing difficult time that ‘LOVE’ will run away.
But if you want your marriage to last forever (i.e. till you die) then it should be done strictly for Allah’s sake.
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