The marriage should be a lifetime process and not just to have a taste of ‘sweet talks and memories’!!! It was mentioned in one of the Egyptian news papers that now the rates of divorces has been increasing rapidly to reach 52% among young people!! Meaning half of those who get married are divorced now!!!! Why? Because he married her for only one reason!!! And that is LOVE (i.e. she’s beautiful and he is handsome)… Is that our standards for getting married? Just because she’s beautiful or that he is very funny and good looking then I could marry him or her? Then be sure, divorce would be the result. But if the marriage was intended to be for life (i.e. forever) and for the sake of Allah (i.e. worship, to please Allah, and to establish a righteous family) then the marriage will last.
Bear with me that:
Not only with love can we survive in this life.
Love does not solve all our problems.
Beauty is amongst the reasons of creating problems, so use your beauty (by observing the proper Hijab) and don’t misuse it.
Don’t think because you are beautiful that your husband must fulfill all your requests and that he must bear all your mistakes!!! Don’t think that she can’t live without you just because you are handsome or rich.
If your reason for getting married is only LOVE, then you have got a problem.
Bear with me that:
Not only with love can we survive in this life.
Love does not solve all our problems.
Beauty is amongst the reasons of creating problems, so use your beauty (by observing the proper Hijab) and don’t misuse it.
Don’t think because you are beautiful that your husband must fulfill all your requests and that he must bear all your mistakes!!! Don’t think that she can’t live without you just because you are handsome or rich.
If your reason for getting married is only LOVE, then you have got a problem.
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